The kinds of relationships we have are highly influenced by our previous loneliness.
At least in the beginning, we need somebody to share with us the way of life we developed in our loneliness. Afterwards (or even never), we create a common style of life by combining two different ways of living the loneliness.
Many use to boast themselves with many words which are supposed to describe complicated forms of loneliness. But if we put into question which is the most common place of living the loneliness, the answer doesn’t flatter many people especially from the urban area, because it is clearly the bathroom. Moreover, the bathroom reveals that nudity is another essential form of being lonely, without any help from the clothes which encourage the civilized people to be together. Among others, only a clothed man or woman can speak about his or her complicated personality.
Therefore, the relationships are most often caused by the quest for a sexual partner who could share our bathroom-loneliness and bathroom-nudity. It is still a respectable loneliness, because the bathroom inspires us a sense of self-care which makes us to forget the ugliness or other imperfections of our bodies. It is a disgraceful way of living the loneliness, too.
If we break a relationship before the formation of the common way of life, we certainly discover that we lived high forms of devotion, love, and feelings of self-esteem (which is now hurt or not), since the bathroom-loneliness taught us to think that we are better than we really are. The disgrace taught also by it is commonly imputed only to our past partners.